PARADOXES OF HARVARD – PARADOXES OF SCIENCE – PARADOXES OF THE MORE.
PARADOXES OF HARVARDPARADOXES OF THE RICH.PARADOXES OF MORE
SORRY, With Coded hysterical angry stressed MIND, any tools: bottles, cars, trucks, airplanes, GUNS, protective tools, protective weapons can become the tools to harm, make hurt or kill othersBUT:But with Coded grateful, happy, kind, peace MIND/men, any tools: bottles, cars, trucks, airplanes, GUNS, protective tools, gas, protective weapons can become the tools to help, make peace or heal others.
| It is not controlling the gun, but the most important is control the things that make the head use the gun. |
| It is not gun-control but most important is control what makes the mind want to use the gun to fire. |
| Forget the gun, arguing about it later, focus time to think to prevent the millions of healthy kids, workers, citizens, soldiers today from committing gunfire in the future. |
| Forget the gun, arguing about it later, focus time to think to prevent the millions of healthy kids, workers, citizens, soldiers today from committing gunfire, suicide, homicide or getting depression in the future. |
| It is not gun-control but most important is control what coded the healthy body with the healthy mind to the state of wanting to fire to others. |
Awaken Buddies:
124 Americans died from suicide/day.
Over 50 % of all people who die by suicide suffer from major depression.
PARADOXES OF THE RICH MAKE FAIL THE MODERN SCIENCE: Every day, approximately 121 Americans take their own life.
Autism, Depression, ADHD: need to read 3 signals: 1. Indifference: no energy/activities 2. Fight: overreact to things. 3. Fight: to the crowd has fear, anxiety, withdraw
Watch out to see any LIVING CREATURE:
1. Indifference – 2. Fight
3. and Flight all days.
Dogs, instinctive creatures, have the park, out twice a day. If not it will get AUTISM, ADHD, DEPRESSION with felt signs: INDIFFERENCE, FIGHT, FLIGHT. Sadly, Kids is in boxes
Felt signs: INDIFFERENCE, FIGHT & FLIGHT from IRRATIONAL MIND forgotten by RATIONAL scientists: Dog’s living maybe better than Autistic kid’s
Felt signs caught by the Religious leader, artist, Educator, better than Ph.D., Scientist & Autistic machine. So NLP, affirmation, meditation is better than medicine, punishment
How can we heal, prevent, treat the things we do not know? A lot of resources put in researching and carrying out but the trend of Suicide, Autism, ADHD, Gunfire are Soaring???
Felt signs caught by the Religious leader, artist, Educator, better than Ph.D., Scientist & Autistic machine. So NLP, affirmation, meditation is better than medicine, punishment
How can we heal, prevent, treat the things we do not know? A lot of resources put in researching and carrying out but the trend of Suicide, Autism, ADHD, Gunfire are Soaring???
SAD FACT:
Depression 25 million Americans suffer from depression each year. Awaken You Wonderful We
EXCUSE ME
WHEN WILL WE INTERPRET STATE or QUALITY HUMAN MIND into EVENTS, DISEASES, and DISASTERS
EVENTS: gunfire, homicide;
DISEASES: autism, ADHD, Depression, Suicide, Chronic diseases, and
DISASTERS: flood, Tsunami, Earthquake…
and its increasing TREND is the interdependent phenomena?
Golden time may be lost:
Just remind: in the family, if parents arguing, attacking each other: they do not want to eat, sleep, play or enjoy thing because of anger. Their good kids will suffer more stress than the total stress of both parents. How on earth they can feel safety and encouragement to learn, try, fail, learn, try and fail to gain vital social skills from society. kids left in Jungle raised by wolves tend to move by 4 legs (hand and foot) and barking like Wolves. Golden time of learning may be lost because of useless argument. no need to do research, just remember your childhood, observe and ask kids about that.
Will the infants/kids develop well in the stress environment? The fact is there are many mothers got depression after giving birth every year.
Things I know is that most victims lack EQ or interaction skill, they understand things differently than most normal people understand. So misunderstanding may make all participants of interaction PAIN.
Autistic kids, ADHD kids may become talented ones but they only good at logical work, they never good at interacting or persuading work.
YOU WILL NEVER FIND TALENTED AUTISTIC ONES GOOD AT EQ so they will feel pain in dealing with people. Over time they may have a habit of negative responses.
1. Unconditioned love & 2. Connection with variety: nature and people & 3. Challenging make Abilities; if bigger than PROBLEMS winner of Autism, ADHD, Depression.
These kids lack EQ or Social/ interaction skills. They may become the talent, but only with logical works, not interaction or persuasion works.
We need to discuss for Right understanding: “Yes to Can Autism, ADHD, Depression can be predicted, prevent, and heal”
SCIENCE???
KNOWLEDGE???
What are they?
Wrong useless opinions supported by modified proofs scientifically. Or useful ideas that cant calculated with the logical equation of science?
PARADOXES OF SCIENCE:
Are most simple ideas of a few great men, philosophers in tiny writing are science or not: Lao Tzu, Jesu Christ, Socrates, Benjamin Franklin, Lincoln, Einstein, Aesop, Mother Teresa, Gandhi Gothe, Shakespear, enlightened Zen Master… These ideas have the longest half-life: decades, centuries, or live with the existence of human beings.
First group:
But they were still humble to teach: “Einstein, Socrates, Peter Drucker said best thinker is forgotten all you know, assumptions, and know nothing.”
What Ph.ds, Dr, Professors do? Just observe the attitude, thin-slicing the conversation, you will know the answer.
Or the second:
The complicated ideas in the thick books, in hundred, thousand or millions pages written by graduates, master, Ph.D.s, Professors? It too much complicated that many Ph.D. said they take years to read and understand. These ideas have very short half-life: moths or years, or just several days. When they believe, they may see its part of their identities, they may die or sacrifice for these changing ideas.
What makes me think? Said fact, whatever economic grown, the standard of living uplifted, the bad ones still soaring that out of control of all developed governments: “
I AM SORRY FOR:
– 124 Americans died from suicide/day.- Over 50 % of all people who die by suicide suffer from major depression- 25 million Americans suffer from depression each year.AND SMART ONES ARE ARGUING AND BUYING MISSLE, WEAPONS, VILLAS, AIRPLANE, LUXURY SHOES, LUXURY BAGS, … to save to satisfy the Basic Human Needs (see the teaching of MASLOW)
Antidepression: Read again, live again, act again, do again, fail again until realize life is the miracle. Medicine won’t help much.
MY answer is YES to Autism, ADHD, Depression, and Suicide can be predicted, prevented and better intervented.
Some thoughts, paradoxes of healing that makes me want to find the answer and put in this book
“EMOTION IS FROM HEAD, NOT HEART. This is the key to open the door to prevent and cure Autism, ADHD, and Suicide. WHAT DO YOU THINK?”
The brain is the most important organ in the body: accounts for 3% of body weight but consumes 20% of the body’s energy. The quality of the brain determines the quality of mind or thinking. And the food of thinking is ideas. What is the food you feed the mind of you, your spouse, and kids every day?
“Stress creates mental illness, depression. What’ mechanism? What happens if newborn kids, infants suffer the same stress? Autism/ADHD?
“If you think you can or can’t, you are right” Henry Ford. Do you think Autism, ADHD are preventable and solvable?”
WHY SHOULD AUTISM BE CURED?
“I am sorry, kids do not happy with autism. The way they react is the react in fear, anxiety or aggressive like Fight and Flight mechanism. Over time they will definitely be trapped by the rainbow of Autism. Do you think so? You think they are happy, but they react to stress, fear, and anxiety. Because of lacking social skill or EQ. If continue most of them will trap more serious mental and health problems. Even with positive affirmation, they and their family are suffering from the problems. People afraid of if their kids, have autism or not!!!”
Just discussing or ignoring. I have 2 kids, meditate, learn pop psychology, have a degree in pharmacy, have compassion heart. the mind is guided by the simple philosophy of great men: Lao Tzu, Einstein, and Socrate, Peter Drucker… so forget your useless assumption to start a discussion.
Do you know conditioned response? Your language, skill, driving skills, professions, the pattern of behaviors and pattern of emotion, fear or anxiety or excitement are CONDITIONED RESPONSES. Even Walking, naming, ritual, taboos are coded in the mind of people, dogs, or tamed animals as conditioned responses. infant left in Jungle will have the conditioned responses of the animals which adopt him. Maybe he will like to crawl instead of walk.
WHAT HAPPENS if golden time: formation of the brain and vital social skills lack vital things? Forget the useless assumption. As I know, many Ph.D. have the highest degree in psychology but do not live well with husband and family, rigid knowledge does not help us much.
Ask “I HAVE BIPOLAR AND I WANT TO GET OUT THIS THIS, PLEASE HELP.”
“Meditate, change your state of mind will change your body, health with happy chemical: dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, endorphins. These are the chemical that drug for antidepression or mental illness aims to increase in the body. Love, hug, connection, understand or be understood, then abilities people should focus. When you have abilities over your problems, good EQ (emotional intelligent by observing, thinking, interacting) you will never stress with the living in human society.”
I AM SORRY, WE ARE WRONG
WE ARE CODED WITH THE GREED, WITH MORE, BEAUTIFUL CAR, LUXURY HOUSE, BEAUTIFUL VILLAS, BEAUTIFUL CLOTHES
BEAUTIFUL
but for what.
To create feelings.
YEAH, MEN SEARCH FOR FEELINGS.
BUT NOT THIS SHALLOW FEELINGS.
Feelings come from satisfying the NEED.
6 basic human needs: certainty, uncertainty, love and connection, significant, development/growth and contribution.
What this car satisfied? GREED, Sorry, before I think they who sit in this car are successful ones, but now I realize they are still the slave of SENSUAL FEELINGS.
They may be called success but they are still the slave of Greed, look deeper we may see the anger.
They may use drugs, hypnotic, narcotic to find the relief, relaxation, and sleep.
I LOVE THE PEOPLE, I KNOW THEY WILL NEVER SIT ON THIS:
BENJAMIN FRANKLIN, GANDHI, BUDDHA, MOTHER TERESA, WARREN BUFFET. And millions of activists, monks who love life, people, the hunger, the disable and nature.
Pavlov has taught about Conditioned Reflex.
NLP, speakers, trainers, motivators take advantages of this with the science of mind and achievement.
All art of communicating is using the knowledge of mind to talk, discuss and persuade people based on the need of people.
THINGS ALL SHOULD KNOW IS PEOPLE ARE CONTROLLED BY HUMAN DRIVE: certainty, uncertainty, love and connection, significance, Growth, and contribution. The perceived opinions about the normal things a threat to these need will create the mechanism of Fight and Flight in people.
Tự kỷ, tăng động và chậm nói mối liên hệ ngầm giúp chỉ ra nguyên nhân, dự đoán, phòng và can thiệp hiệu quả from Van Dao Duy
Seasonal stress in america and world kill the most, not cold, heat or flu from Van Dao Duy
The hidden relation, clues of autism, ADHD and depression which reveals the cause and possible cure from Van Dao Duy
Tự kỷ, tăng động và chậm nói mối liên hệ ngầm giúp chỉ ra nguyên nhân, dự đoán, phòng và can thiệp hiệu quả from Van Dao Duy
The mind is Irrational.
SO
Anger, anxiety, behavior, depressed, name, lack of mindfulness, lack of concentration, taboo, fear, happiness are Conditioned Responses; they are unconsciously coded in brain, cells, genes and silently control us.
It can explain why many Alternative therapies help chronic diseases. So best of all is an effective combination the advantages of all therapist.
Do you think the pills that pharmacy sell, therapist recommend, and Ph.D. created work for you?
It is good for acute and knows the causes, and characters of causes.
But
IT JUST MAKE TEMPORARY and short-term. FOR LONG TERM on the mind, forget medication, start to find meditation TO CALM THE MIND.SLEEPNESS COME FROM WORRY OF THE DISEASES OF YOUR CHILD, THE ANGER OF THE WORKPLACE, THE FEAR OF YOUR FAULT MAY BE REVEALED. YES, THE MIND.SLEEPNESS, HEADACHE, STOMACH ACHE, IMPOTENCE, LOST OF APPETITE, LACKING CONCENTRATION, DISTRACTION COME FROM WORRY OF THE DISEASES OF YOUR CHILD, THE ANGER OF THE WORKPLACE, THE FEAR OF YOUR FAULT MAY BE REVEALED, THE DISCONTENTMENT FROM NOT POSSESSING EXPENSIVE CARS, LUXURY APARTMENTS. YES, THE MIND.SLEEPNESS, ANXIETY, HEADACHE, STOMACH ACHE COME FROM THE PRESSURE IN FAMILY, SCHOOL, THE TESTES, THE EXAMINES, THE INTERVIEW, THE DEADLINES. YES, THE MIND.SLEEPING PILLS, PAINKILLER, PAIN RELIEVERS, MUSCLE RELAXATION ONLY MAKE TEMPORARY RELIEF. IT IS NOT CURE THE CHRONIC DISEASES AT ALL.PATIENT WITH CHRONIC DISEASES USE TOO MUCH SLEEPING PILLS, PAINKILLER, PAIN RELIEVERS, MUSCLE RELAXATION MAY BE ADDICTED TO IT TO FIND THE TEMPORARY RELAXATION OR TEMPORARY GOOD FEELINGS. THAT WHY YOU TAKE MEDICATION FOR WEEKS, MONTHS OR YEARS BUT DO NOT HELP RELIEVING THE CHRONIC DISEASES.HERE IS THE SIDE EFFECTS OF STRESS, THE RAINBOW OF STRESS, THE SYNDROME OF STRESS IN THE BODY. CLOSE YOUR EYE, FEEL THE INVISIBLE WE MAY SEE THE STATE OF MINDS EVERYWHERE.
“Do you know: when you are sleeping, your brain still works to review, correct, and create the changes side the brain and body, genes that we do not know. But we know how brain/ mind works by observing the pattern of sleeping with changing the pressure from the environment: EEG, Slow-wave sleep, REM sleep. We know that some chronic patients have some things strange with their genes, does its changes first or state of mind, environment create it then diseases are the perceivable symptoms.”
Stress start from the state of mind.
“It is not cold, virus, flu make American ill, but the stressed mind. January is the most stressed month because of tired working, pressure from work, pressure from the deadline of the credit card, mainly from Stressed, Discontented, Hysterical MIND.”
“If yes, only medication, pain reliever, opioids are useless; punishment is useless, prison is not enough. We need to think of an alternative technique to calm the mind, soothe the pain and find inner peace for all: meditation, and lifelong learning.”
“Use a smartwatch to record the changing of the body to know the changing of the state of mind, emotion: hatred, anger, stress, depression, and love.”
Stressed in the family, no matter rich or poor usually have simple patterns:
+ Father with cardiovascular diseases, sexual dysfunction.
+ Mother with mental diseases: depression, autoimmune diseases, stomach problems or thyroid problems.
+ Kids under stress: upset stomach, vomiting, cold, flu symptoms. or Autism, ADHD, over-react, rebelling and/ or junior autoimmune diseases.
“Check these symptoms to know you are under stress or not, only by SMART WATCH.”
AUTISM, ADHD…
What would you do if you have to live like them?
IF THEY MAY LIVE, EAT, GET VACCINE UNDER STRESS, FEAR, ANXIETY, AND HISTERIA, DISGUST, CONTEMPT. PLAY IN FEAR, BORING SAFE-SIDE. EXHAUSTED IN A RACE THAT NEVER ends”
Stress chemical: Adrenalin, noradrenalin, and cortisone, and its effects are the best explanation for varieties of problems rainbow.- Effects of Adrenalin: Sweating, Nausea and vomiting, Pale skin, Feeling short of breath, Dizziness, Weakness or tremors, Headache, Feeling of nervousness or anxiousness.
– Effects of Norepinephrine: Pain, burning, Numbness, weakness, or cold, Slow or uneven heart rate, Trouble breathing, Vision, speech, or balance difficulties, Blue lips or fingernails, Spotted skin.
– Minor side effects Cortisol: Acne, dry skin, or thinning skin, Bruising or discoloration of the skin, Insomnia, Mood changes, Increased sweating, Headache, Dizziness, Nausea, stomach pain,
– Serious side effects cortisol: Vision problems, Swelling, Rapid weight gain, Shortness of breath, Severe depression or unusual thoughts or behaviors, Seizures, Bloody or tarry stools, Coughing up blood, and pancreatitis: pain in your upper stomach that spreads to your back; nausea and vomiting; or fast heart rate.
Under stress state, cardiovascular medication only makes the temporary relief.
Because of me, because of you I always enjoy these chemicals in eating, receiving, getting, giving, sleeping and enjoying.
– The combination of these four factors describes the big difference in boy and girls in autism, ADHD: the instinctive advantages of female makes the cute make girl do not get problems.
Father said: “the day autistic child happy he will less over-react than the stressful day.”
Our angels
“They live in stress, eating in fear, sleeping in anxiety, playing in the boring safe side, wearing luxury clothes in discontentment, studying with pressure, getting lifesaving vaccination hysterically, and sexing with contempt. They never find real joy and happiness. Stress chemical: Adrenalin, noradrenalin and cortisone created countless side effects on patients, which listed in any medical book.”
• “You do not teach healthy kids to learn the languages: English, Japanese, Chinese, and Vietnamese… but kids can make it become their instinct. That is the nature of learning without learning, Kid under three years old can do this as instinct.
Will the infants/kids develop well in the stress environment? The facts are there are many old never have to sit at the table to learn, but they learn every time with joy”
• “Nature of learning is learning without stress, learn just with joy, enthusiasm, with love, endless energy, and participate of all intelligence. The environment just supplies Unconditioned Love, Connection – Understanding, Encourage Environment, and Chances of Building Abilities.”
• “Walking, thinking, speaking native languages, studying countless skills: one-year-old kids, two-year-old kids, three-year-old kids never have to sit at the table to learn. But that time kids can learn more than anybody can imagine. Think about that before any blind intervention.”
• “Playing is learning, watching is learning, sleeping is learning, and doing are learning… Kids may experience “Flow” from the early stage of life. Kids’ most powerful tools are the weakness, beloved, cute, enthusiasm, pay attention, curiosity, asking, imagining, and learn, try, fail, think, learn, try, fail, think, learn, try, fail, think With Joy and safety. Think about that before each time of intervention.”
• “Best for kids: accept we may wrong to learn to create chances for kids grow. Socrates smart because he said he did not know anything. I feel cramp of Gut feelings when seeing the parents of kids with lots of problems said they know all things and start to blame all things except themselves for their problems.”
YOU HAVE KNOWLEDGE AND STUCK WITH YOUR PROBLEMS.
BUT YOU NEED WISDOM AND ENLIGHTENMENT
“You ask which research or publication my writing based?
“I go first to solve human problems, and scientists will prove it latter as Einstein ‘s theory.”
“Yes, brain. When the brain is forming most: fetus and infant: what will happen if the immature brain formed in Stress, severe stress.”
“I mean always shouting, blaming, crying, beating.”
“If the brain can mature enough to overcome the stressful childhood. What the brain will be conditioned if they experience beating, shouting, separating, raping, … SOME MOTHERs SO STRESSED THAT THEY GOT DEPRESSION AFTER BIRTH.”
“The fact is many people in wealthy countries are using antidepression medication to find the relief. Most of the anti-depression medication is used to stimulate happy chemical: serotonin in Brain. When kissing, hugging, doing good, recognizing.. can stimulate Serotonin in the brain.”
“Things are so simple but people try to make it complicated.”
“All in one: behavior, gut feeling, heartbeat, state of mind, mental illness, quality of sleep, genes are one.”
“Power of simplicity: Book that teaches wisdom, enlightenment: Te-Tao Ching with 5000 words equal to 30 pages is much profound and useful than five thousand pages of psychology books and psychiatry books that students have to become psychologists or psychiatrists.”
“If you think you can or can’t, you are right” I have met many Ph.D.s said Autism, ADHD cannot prevent, sooth or cure. DO YOU?”
“Do ADHD, Autism, mental problems, insomnia, headache, suicide problems, social problems, stomach, heart,… the War HAVE RELATION?”
“Strength from inside is the best power that no need to cover my expensive phone, luxury bag, big degree to find safety, importance.”
“Awaken You Wonderful We
Awaken Parents Wonderful Kids
Awaken You Wonderful Kid
waken Teachers Wonderful students
Awaken Politicians Wonderful World”
“Stress can make mental illness, depression, what is the mechanism? What will happen if newborn kids, infants suffer the same stress?”
“Stress creates mental illness, depression. What’ mechanism? What happens if newborn kids, infants suffer the same stress? Autism/ADHD?”
I am on the way to deal with it, do you want to join in?
